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08-16-2006, 04:29 PM
Has anyone ever heard of her?
http://www.barbmallon.com/index.htm
Earlier this year i was on the net trying to find a medium i could get a reading with,but looking for someone who is genuine of course. There was a few i came across,and Barb was one that i felt comfortable with after checking out her site and doing as much research as i could. She is a lot like John, even does seminar type things and tv/radio stuff. Her prices were not outrageous, it was decent compared to others, so i decided to take a chance and give it a shot for a half hour reading. This was back in March i had this reading, and i went into it a bit skeptical, afraid that she wasn't what i hoped she'd be.
We had a phone reading, that she was taping,and really made me feel comfortable from the start. She described how it works, much like John does and not to give her too much info,etc.
Since it was only a half hour she asked who i wanted to speak with and i said my friend Jennifer.
she actually said she thought it was a male friend coming through but that it could just be in reference to Jen’s character, being a very strong characteristic.
The first thing that came through, was in reference to her neck/head area some sort of injury there, airflow cut and a quick passing. She said she doesn’t take responsibility for it, that it happened to her, like someone hit her. all of that is true (she was hit by a drunk driver) so that was validation.
Barb said Jen is very quick paced and often said how funny she is,even as she’s coming through. lol
There was reference to someone having jewelry of hers. I mentioned I have a necklace of hers (a 'best friends' piece) but she kept referring to earrings. A gold round pair of earings. I didn’t understand that one.
She also made a reference to a religious charm of hers, like a saint charm or cross of some sort. I didn’t get it either. I was just thinking maybe her rosary that her mom has.
She also made reference to skiing, a skiing resort. I have no idea what that is either. I don’t ever remember her skiing,and I certainly haven’t so it’s not about me. Unless she was referring to when I went to Jasper back in September. Maybe she just threw that out there to let me know she was with me. I don’t know. It’s kind of odd she would use that instead of any other place,considering the many places I’ve been too! lol. So I don’t know for sure what that was about. that’s just a guess on my part.
She mentioned our relationship is more of a sister bond,and that is true.
She joked that I kept her out of trouble. Not quite sure what that means,but it could be in reference to the things she was into and when she came to live here for awhile,and me being a “goody twoshoes” or something LOL.
She sees me writing about her. Could mean the poems I’ve written,or the memorial a website,or the memorial I put in the paper once, and could even mean my dream journal when I have dreams about her I write them all down.
So she knows about that stuff I guess. She also thanked me for my kind words.
One thing that really hit me was when she mentioned the guilt. She referes to it as survivors guilt, "why her and not me" type of thing. That's been an issue before.
Jen says that concerns her that i feel this guilt because i'm not letting myself move forward. Jen says it's not my fault, she loves me and wants me to be free, i did nothing wrong.Give up the guilt and move forward.
She even mentioned how she had just started a new phase in her life when this happened. And that is true too, she had only been up there (where she moved) for a couple months, had a good job and stuff.. so that rang true too.
Barb asked if she had lots of dates, ‘cause Jen was saying how she had a lot of people in her life and how fun she was,very gregarious. That is very true too. She made friends very easily.
She mentioned a dream I had about the accident. true. One time I had a dream that she was visiting and I asked her if she remembered anything about the accident. She made reference (in the dream) to the front of the other vehicle, the bumper. that that was the last thing she saw when they were hit. So that was my dream about that. And Jen told me not to confuse that kind of dream with real visits. The accident dream is more about working on my guilt or something. But the other visits from her are real and her way to connect with me. I’ve often doubted the dreams I’ve had, wondering if they were real or not. And I haven’t even had one in a looong time which has been worrying me. But it’s good to know that those visits I’ve had are truly real.
She even says she's around me a lot at night when i'm sleeping. So that is interesting.
She also made reference to some sort of engraving of her name on something, like on jewelry or a tattoo. I wasn't sure about this.
She said she likes people are wearing her clothes. I know I have her bon jovi shirt,but I don’t wear it,it’s just hanging up. But I don’t think that was it, she was referring to some sort of light blue shirt or jacket that someone wears,or sleeps with at night,and smells it.. something along that line is what Barb was getting from her. I didn't understand that. But i know her mom has a lot of stuff.
And another thing that really got me.. she told me that I have a lot of work to do here. She told me not to be confused which way to go (??) and even talked about further education,surrounding me (LOL! that will NEVER happen)
That really got to me,because for a long time I’ve been feeling like I’m at a crossroad in my life. Not knowing what I’m supposed to be doing, feeling like there’s no purpose here.
Now, after i told her mom about this reading,she was just floored. She was able to validate stuff i couldn't.
The gold earings she talked about, her mom does in fact have her gold earings.
The religious medal she talked about, she's got Jen's rosary but also has her St.Christopher medal!
The clothes that people are wearing, Steph actually donated some of her clothes before she moved to florida. But the blue shirt or jacket that was coming through, is in fact a jacket of hers that Steph has and does wear, a blue jacket.
The engraving of her name... she's got a xmas ornament with Jen's name on it, that was actually given to Jen when she was still alive. She has that.
So that was a few things solved.
That was my first ever medium reading and this reading was pretty good for a start.
I’ll admit I was a bit skeptical,and sort of still am,but I think this was certainly legit,as some of this stuff she wouldn’t possibly know.
So it went really well.
I would love another reading though, and this time bring in a couple other relatives as well. I'd love to hear more from them.
But would want to try a different medium and haven't made a decision on that yet.
http://www.barbmallon.com/index.htm
Earlier this year i was on the net trying to find a medium i could get a reading with,but looking for someone who is genuine of course. There was a few i came across,and Barb was one that i felt comfortable with after checking out her site and doing as much research as i could. She is a lot like John, even does seminar type things and tv/radio stuff. Her prices were not outrageous, it was decent compared to others, so i decided to take a chance and give it a shot for a half hour reading. This was back in March i had this reading, and i went into it a bit skeptical, afraid that she wasn't what i hoped she'd be.
We had a phone reading, that she was taping,and really made me feel comfortable from the start. She described how it works, much like John does and not to give her too much info,etc.
Since it was only a half hour she asked who i wanted to speak with and i said my friend Jennifer.
she actually said she thought it was a male friend coming through but that it could just be in reference to Jen’s character, being a very strong characteristic.
The first thing that came through, was in reference to her neck/head area some sort of injury there, airflow cut and a quick passing. She said she doesn’t take responsibility for it, that it happened to her, like someone hit her. all of that is true (she was hit by a drunk driver) so that was validation.
Barb said Jen is very quick paced and often said how funny she is,even as she’s coming through. lol
There was reference to someone having jewelry of hers. I mentioned I have a necklace of hers (a 'best friends' piece) but she kept referring to earrings. A gold round pair of earings. I didn’t understand that one.
She also made a reference to a religious charm of hers, like a saint charm or cross of some sort. I didn’t get it either. I was just thinking maybe her rosary that her mom has.
She also made reference to skiing, a skiing resort. I have no idea what that is either. I don’t ever remember her skiing,and I certainly haven’t so it’s not about me. Unless she was referring to when I went to Jasper back in September. Maybe she just threw that out there to let me know she was with me. I don’t know. It’s kind of odd she would use that instead of any other place,considering the many places I’ve been too! lol. So I don’t know for sure what that was about. that’s just a guess on my part.
She mentioned our relationship is more of a sister bond,and that is true.
She joked that I kept her out of trouble. Not quite sure what that means,but it could be in reference to the things she was into and when she came to live here for awhile,and me being a “goody twoshoes” or something LOL.
She sees me writing about her. Could mean the poems I’ve written,or the memorial a website,or the memorial I put in the paper once, and could even mean my dream journal when I have dreams about her I write them all down.
So she knows about that stuff I guess. She also thanked me for my kind words.
One thing that really hit me was when she mentioned the guilt. She referes to it as survivors guilt, "why her and not me" type of thing. That's been an issue before.
Jen says that concerns her that i feel this guilt because i'm not letting myself move forward. Jen says it's not my fault, she loves me and wants me to be free, i did nothing wrong.Give up the guilt and move forward.
She even mentioned how she had just started a new phase in her life when this happened. And that is true too, she had only been up there (where she moved) for a couple months, had a good job and stuff.. so that rang true too.
Barb asked if she had lots of dates, ‘cause Jen was saying how she had a lot of people in her life and how fun she was,very gregarious. That is very true too. She made friends very easily.
She mentioned a dream I had about the accident. true. One time I had a dream that she was visiting and I asked her if she remembered anything about the accident. She made reference (in the dream) to the front of the other vehicle, the bumper. that that was the last thing she saw when they were hit. So that was my dream about that. And Jen told me not to confuse that kind of dream with real visits. The accident dream is more about working on my guilt or something. But the other visits from her are real and her way to connect with me. I’ve often doubted the dreams I’ve had, wondering if they were real or not. And I haven’t even had one in a looong time which has been worrying me. But it’s good to know that those visits I’ve had are truly real.
She even says she's around me a lot at night when i'm sleeping. So that is interesting.
She also made reference to some sort of engraving of her name on something, like on jewelry or a tattoo. I wasn't sure about this.
She said she likes people are wearing her clothes. I know I have her bon jovi shirt,but I don’t wear it,it’s just hanging up. But I don’t think that was it, she was referring to some sort of light blue shirt or jacket that someone wears,or sleeps with at night,and smells it.. something along that line is what Barb was getting from her. I didn't understand that. But i know her mom has a lot of stuff.
And another thing that really got me.. she told me that I have a lot of work to do here. She told me not to be confused which way to go (??) and even talked about further education,surrounding me (LOL! that will NEVER happen)
That really got to me,because for a long time I’ve been feeling like I’m at a crossroad in my life. Not knowing what I’m supposed to be doing, feeling like there’s no purpose here.
Now, after i told her mom about this reading,she was just floored. She was able to validate stuff i couldn't.
The gold earings she talked about, her mom does in fact have her gold earings.
The religious medal she talked about, she's got Jen's rosary but also has her St.Christopher medal!
The clothes that people are wearing, Steph actually donated some of her clothes before she moved to florida. But the blue shirt or jacket that was coming through, is in fact a jacket of hers that Steph has and does wear, a blue jacket.
The engraving of her name... she's got a xmas ornament with Jen's name on it, that was actually given to Jen when she was still alive. She has that.
So that was a few things solved.
That was my first ever medium reading and this reading was pretty good for a start.
I’ll admit I was a bit skeptical,and sort of still am,but I think this was certainly legit,as some of this stuff she wouldn’t possibly know.
So it went really well.
I would love another reading though, and this time bring in a couple other relatives as well. I'd love to hear more from them.
But would want to try a different medium and haven't made a decision on that yet.