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Farmer Kathy
11-28-2001, 05:46 PM
Dear friends

I would like to share our story of getting a reading from John last March in Hartford, Ct. This will be kind of long but I really feel like I need to say everything for it to make sense.

First a little history. As some of you know my son, Ray crossed over 7 years ago last July. He was 13 at the time. A typical 13 year old boy, loved sports, picking on his older sisters, etc. Ray was a very well liked boy by his peers and adults alike. One of the things that he did was be friends with everyone. If someone was shy or being picked on he was there being thier friend. I mention this because it is important later on in the reading.

When we went to see John we really didn't go there to get read. The main reason myself, my husband and oldest daughter went was to see if John was for real. To say that Ray's crossing devastated me is putting it mildly. I truly needed to believe he was still connected to us somehow. I had had things happen but until John came along I really couldn't believe they were real. So when I got the tickets I knew if I could be in the same room with him I would be able to tell for sure. (of course I don't need to tell any of you he is for real)

Anyway on the way up to Hartford I had made a list of everyone who had crossed over and wanted my daughter to look at it. She was teasing me about it but not having watched John that much she didn't know about psychic amnesia!! Anyway on the way up there all of a sudden I remembered a priest, Father Germano who had crossed. He was our priest when the kids were small and we were very close to him.

So we got there and sat down. We had one empty seat by us and this lady asked to sit there and her Mom sat in front of us. She started talking to my daughter and she had lost her daughter less than a year before. She understandly was very upset.

Then John came out!! He did quite a few good and very interesting readings. Then he came over by us. (Of course as soon as he gets anywheres near you your petrified!!) I was.

He started out by saying he has 3 together, but 2 together and 1 apart hitting his hands together with 2 fingers up on one hand, 1 finger on the other. Then he started talking about someone crossing from a severe allergic reaction to milk. The woman next to us kept telling her Mom she knew someone from Compassionate Friends who's little girl had passed from this but her Mom kept telling her to wait.

Well we all know how persistant John can be and she finally raised her hand. He asked her if she had lost a daughter. Yes.

Why 2 together-1 apart? Then she pointed to me and said I had lost my son. He then went on to validate quite a bit for her from her daughter (the nicest was she mentioned her 2 year old brother). Then he said he had a large dog. She had a little one but my sister's dog had crossed and Ray and Zeus had grown up together. We had always hoped they were together. Soon as I said Zues he moved on like he does when something is validated.

Then he asked were the priest came in. She had no priest connection. Why did I all of a sudden remember Father Germano in the car? He said the priest is with the 3 of them.

Then he said he had a Cinderella connection. She said they had gone on vacation to Disneyworld and she had a picture of her two children in front of the castle. He kept insisting on the shoe being left behind. That meant nothing to her. He then went on to another reading.

So as you see we had a couple validations--the dog and Father Germano. But that wasn't the main one. The reference to Cinderella's shoe had no meaning for me--but it did for my daughter. Our son had been riding his bike and had been hit by a car. Heather had gone up to the scene after Ray had been taken to the hospital. (I had gone straight to hospital) When she got up there Ray had been hit so hard his sneakers had been knocked off. She was in such shock she wanted to pick his shoes up but the police needed them left there because it was a crime scene. Some friends of ours with her literally had to pull her away so she wouldn't take them. Hence the shoe being left behind. If I had gone alone this validation might of slipped by because I never knew any of this till that day.

We all believe that Ray helped those 2 little girls (they were both 5) to come thru. That's what he was like here, helping others to fit in. Could he still be doing that now that he's crossed?? We all think so.

Since then we have been able to talk about visits from Ray we have all had but never talked about. John has helped bring our family back together. I will be forever grateful to him for that.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

PsyQuestor
11-28-2001, 06:28 PM
Could he still be doing that now that he's crossed?? We all think so.

I think so too :)

So happy that you were able to receive your validations and be comforted. Thank you for sharing them with us, and for sharing this part of your son's continuing story with us ((( Kathy )))

Tammy

Irishrose
11-28-2001, 06:32 PM
What a wonderful experience for you and your family. Children are so very special in what they do for others on the other side. You are a very special family as well. No doubt Ray will visit again - especially now that the holidays are coming up.

Thanks very much for sharing your story with all of us. They are so specal.

Irishrose

JBannister
11-28-2001, 06:44 PM
(((Kathy))),
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. I was so
moved from beginning to end. Having seen John in person made
it even easier to imagine your seminar experience. However, you
write so well it wasn't necessary, in my imagination I know I still
would have felt as though I was sitting right next to you.
You are a strong and amazing woman. I believe with all my
heart your son will continue to be in your life and will continue to
send you validations.
Julie

RSLancastr
11-28-2001, 07:07 PM
Mz. Farmer:

Was this filmed? I only ask because it sounds so familiar, like perhaps I had seen it... Or maybe you wrote about it here or elsewhere? It just sounds so familiar to me...

-Bob

naomi
11-28-2001, 07:11 PM
Kathy, thank you for sharing such a poignant part of your life. I, too, feel sure that your son is that same caring spirit you knew him to be here. What a treasure you have in knowing he continues to be such an intergral part of all your lives.

Farmer Kathy
11-28-2001, 08:01 PM
Thank you all for your kind words. They mean a lot to me. I'm glad I can share this with people that understand. Thanks.

Bob-- no this wasn't filmed but I do belong to another group that I did share this story with. Perhaps you read it there.

Don
11-28-2001, 09:07 PM
You had a wonderful experience and some wonderful validations. I too think he's still helping in whatever way he is able.
Thanks for sharing, Kathy.

Diva70
11-29-2001, 09:42 PM
Beautiful. Thank you SO much for sharing :) Just wonderful!

{{{hugs}}}

riley90
02-09-2002, 09:53 PM
((((Kathy))))
Can't wait to give you a hug for real.
Riley