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Pam
08-22-2003, 02:53 AM
Hi there everyone!

There's so much I want to say to everyone! This has been a roller-coaster summer, that's for sure. There's so many threads I want to post to, but I won't hijack the discussion board leaving nothing but a list of new posts from me :)


Most importantly, thank you all for the prayers for my mother. She was in critical condition and unresponsive, and we were hours away from taking her off life support because the doctors didn't give us much hope, based on her brain EEGs and based on what mom had told us in the past, should she ever be in this condition. We were literally planning all the difficult details of her probable crossing over last night and I went to say goodbye to her, hoping -- yet doubting -- that she could hear me. :( This morning, by God's graces :love: she defied all the doctors and awoke from her coma. It's still touch and go, but we have been blessed with a second chance on This Side - and I am well aware that this is a very rare happening. I would appreciate your continued prayers for her recovery, and for all who are caring for her now while she is still in the ICU.


Thank you for prayers for my broken and sprained ankles. The toughest part was being away from my son for so many hours because I had to stay in bed so much, but the blessing was that we found a wonderful young lady to come and take care of Zach right here in the house and Zach adores her! I know your prayers are working, because my physical therapists are amazed at how well I'm walking (not 100% yet though!) My broken ankle was a gift from God. Looking back, I can see that I asked for this to happen, and it did. (More on that later :) I am very impolitely late with my "thank you cards" to all who sent me cards, letters, flowers, printed out the prayer requests for me, care packages, cookies, and beautiful, meaningful gifts. I am constantly overwhelmed by the generosity and spirit of the people of this community. You are all so special, and special to me.

A huge thank you, hugs, (and drinks on me next time we see each other) to all the moderators: Jude, Don, Julie, Ann Marie, Laura, Cyndy, Tammy (whom I missed SO MUCH) and our newest team member Gail. Thank you for holding down the fort and keeping in touch with me via the phone, so I could still feel "connected" even though I was so far from the computer.

There's so many wonderful discussions here, and I haven't even had time to read them all. I hope that I can start catching up, once I know what direction my mom is going to take, and what she's going to need from me, if anything, over the next few days and weeks.

To those who have emailed me, please be patient with me. I still can't spend a lot of time on the pc (still dealing with swelling issues and have to keep the ankle higher than my heart.) Please give me time to sort through all the system emails, board emails and spam.

THANK YOU EVERYONE :love:

starlasue
08-22-2003, 06:05 AM
(((Pam)))

Welcome back! :jumper: We missed you!

Prayers continue for you, your mom and your family. What a gift for the turn-around for your mom. These are difficult day, I am sure. We'll keep lifting you up here!

Peace
starlasue

Tanner2
08-22-2003, 06:23 AM
Continued prayers for your mom, and for you, Pam. What a gift that she awoke from her coma. When my father-in-law had his stroke and was in a coma, we were in the same situation. The doctors had a big meeting with everyone and everyone said their goodbyes. That same night he woke up. So I know the joy that went through your heart when you got that call. He's still here, three years later. We all ran into the hospital and there he was sitting in a chair and he said, "I'm not ready to die yet." So I have no doubt he was totally aware of what was going on around him, just like your mom.

Sending prayers that things continue to improve for you in all areas. These trials do make us stronger.
:musicnote :musicnote:musicnote

Gail
08-22-2003, 06:39 AM
((Pam)) It's all been a labor of love. :daisy: Wonderful to have you back.

It's always fascinating to witness the way things that appear so dire at first can end up turning out so well. We learn over and over that there are no coincidences, everything happens for a reason.:angel2:

Love, Gail

VTFlowerGirl
08-22-2003, 07:20 AM
You don't know how good it is to hear from you Pam. It's also good to see you've found a silver lining to the dark cloud regarding your accident. I too have been praying for your Mom, last Christmas our family was in a very similar situation, so I do know a bit how helpless it feels and how much prayer helps when there's nothing left to do.

Yippee Yeah! Pammy posted and is doing well. Gonna be a great day. :jumper:

tinkster
08-22-2003, 07:20 AM
(((Pam and family)))

What wonderful news!
Prayers going up in thanks and for continued good happenings!

tinkster :-)

Don
08-22-2003, 07:28 AM
Continued prayers for your Mom, Pam.
It's wonderful how things come together for the best... whether we necessarily agree or not :rolleyes:
No need for any catch-ups or thank you's. There wasn't a day go by that we didn't feel you here in spirit, and feel for your pain.
Welcome back.




:clink: Did she say drinks?

kristenr
08-22-2003, 07:56 AM
((((Pam))))

Continued prayers going up for your Mom, you, your family and all those taking care of her.

Wonderful to see you posting and feeling better.

Love,
Kristen

chargeit2him
08-22-2003, 08:52 AM
It's good to hear from you and that you are getting better (as the story goes "slow and steady wins the race";) )I'm glad that your mom is doing a little better. :musicnote Still thinking about you and your family :musicnote
Sandy

MNT2BE
08-22-2003, 10:34 AM
(((Pam))) I missed you sooo much. You have, and will continue to be, in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Beth

canadianmom
08-22-2003, 11:13 AM
((((Pam)))))
It's so good to see you back! :)
I'm so glad your mom is in good hands, and on the road to recover (although, a very long road) Please know that I continue to pray for you both.
:daisy:
Here's to happier days ahead!
:musicnote

Peace,
~Nicole
:musicnote

Searcher240
08-22-2003, 12:22 PM
Pam, it's so wonderful to hear your good news!!!** I will keep on sending prayers your way!! :musicnote :musicnote
We want you feeling better by November!! :D

Phigalilly
08-22-2003, 12:29 PM
(((Pam)))


That's one mean roller-coaster you've been on this Summer.:(

What a tremendous gift to have more time with your Mom, I pray that she continues to improve. You, your mom, and the rest of your family remain in my prayers.:musicnote :musicnote


I am so happy to have you back!:jumper: Take it easy, take your time.....however......

"There's so many threads I want to post to, but I won't hijack the discussion board leaving nothing but a list of new posts from me"

I REALLY don't think anyone would mind!! Post away!!!:D

Yardbird
08-22-2003, 02:56 PM
Always good to have the captain at the helm-- but you were here in spirit, so it's not welcome back, so much as glad to see you active again--

Heather C.
08-22-2003, 03:10 PM
Pam, welcome back :) So glad to hear you and your mom are feeling a little better. I'm praying for a speedy recovery for the both of you.

Irishrose
08-22-2003, 06:02 PM
What a nice treat!

Pam, it is so good to hear from you. You know how much time you can spend on the board so don't over do it. I would hate to see you back to square one again.

Rest well. Continued prayers for your Mother's comfort.

Blessings,

Irishrose

capistrano
08-22-2003, 07:43 PM
PAM
It's wonderful to have you back here!! So glad you are feeling better!
I will continue sending prayers your way for you and your Mom and family!
capistrano

WPBEAR14
08-23-2003, 12:41 AM
Prayers continuing for all of your family!
Take it easy until you are fully recovered. My granddaughters are visiting, so I know the challenge of chasing a two year old.

:) So good to have you back!
POOH

amfie
08-23-2003, 09:19 AM
((((Pam)))))

Glad to hear that you are doing better. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers daily!

You continue to amaze me! You always see the "positive" and I am truly glad that I found you when I did. You're an inspiration to me!

God bless!

Ann Marie

forgiveness
08-23-2003, 02:58 PM
Pam
What a miracle. Thank god.
I pray that your Mom gets stronger and stronger every day.
HUGS
Angelina

pegasus214
08-23-2003, 03:03 PM
Pam,

I'm so happy to hear your Mom is getting better. Prayers do help! I didn't know that she was so ill, or that you had broken your ankle. I am here and there on the site, not staying too long, and not reading all the threads, and I guess I missed that important bit of news.

My prayers will be with you. Continue to mend.

Lorrie

Francine555
08-23-2003, 06:08 PM
Hi Pam,
I, like Lorrie, didn't know about your accident or your Mom :( I've been slacking off with reading the threads and posting as well.

Please know that you & your family are in my prayers also!

(((((((( PAM & FAMILY)))))))) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's to speedy recoveries for both you and your Mom!!

Fran

Jeannie
08-24-2003, 04:25 PM
So glad to hear from you. I will cont to keep you, your mother and family in my prayers. :musicnote
Love
Jeannie

PsyQuestor
08-25-2003, 09:33 AM
Welcome back Pam! You were missed.
About those drinks - whenever you're ready, I'm there :D

((( HUGS )))
Tammy

fforrest47
08-25-2003, 03:03 PM
Pam
Thoughts to me are indeed prayers ... Thus, you and your dear mother are in my thoughts this afternoon.
Blessings,
Michael

Jassie
08-26-2003, 09:23 AM
Pam,

It great to see you back:) .

My continued thoughts and prayers for you and your Mom. :musicnote :musicnote

AngelsMailroom
08-26-2003, 12:20 PM
How Perfect ....

I took your advice, Pam, & tried getting through using Explorer, & voila! I can't believe it. :D Thank you!

(x)(x)(x)(x) To you, Pam ~ what an experience this summer has been for you. I am so sorry for you & since I haven't been able to post, (or read the threads), I had no idea of the difficulties that you were enduring. Especially with your mom. You & your mom will surely be in my thoughts & prayers.

You take care, ya hear now?


(x)(x)(x)(x) Adrienne

PS ~ Hello all

Nauset
08-27-2003, 09:40 AM
I glad to hear that you are getting better. It's great to hear from you again. And I'm glad your mom is doing better. Wow what a miracle! I will continue to keep your mom and you and your family in my prayers. :musicnote :musicnote :musicnote

Susan


P.S. Welcome back to Adrienne also:)

Amethyst
08-29-2003, 11:01 PM
Pam,
I'll be praying for you, your mother, and your family. Try to get some rest. I'm glad things are looking up.
Donna

Koala
08-30-2003, 04:55 PM
Pam, It's good to hear about you and your mom. You and her will be in my prayers. God Bless you two. Kim :angel: